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After my wife was diagnosed
with mesothelioma, she
said many times she cannot even begin to fathom how I dealt with it. I have
only spoken to her once about what it was like caring for her during this
heartbreaking time. I am hoping this will make my experience more
understandable to both her, and the countless other families who are
experiences similar tough times.
My wife was diagnosed only
three months after our only child, Lily, was born. It was very difficult going
from a time of complete love, joy and happiness to a world of fear, sadness and
despair. When we were given this horrifying news my wife sat crying as I kept
thinking to myself "What are we going to do?"
I felt so lost and
incapable of dealing with this news. I
was on the verge of breaking down when the doctor started talking to us about
treatment. Like many other days during this time, we would be forced to make
difficult decisions while at the same time my heart and mind were wracked with
fear.
When my wife was diagnosed
I was angry, very angry. I was filled with so much rage and fear that it was
very hard to control my feelings. At times, my anger came out in bursts of
profanity when speaking to others. It all seemed so unfair. As time went on, I
realized how selfish I was being. My wife and daughter needed me, and the last
thing they needed was to see how scared I truly was. I managed to control my
rage better and remain strong for my wife and daughter.
During this time, I felt so
overwhelmed with all of the new responsibilities which suddenly fell on me. I
had to work, take care of my wife and daughter, our home, our pets and do
nearly everything that once was a shared chore.
I was happy to do this, but I quickly became overwhelmed with the sheer
amount of tasks on my to-do list. I
learned that I needed to prioritize and create a routine. I also needed to seek out the help of others.
Thankfully, we did have many family members and friends that offered to help us
out when we needed them most. I cannot imagine what we would've done without
them.
During one period of time,
life was particularly difficult. My wife, Heather, had to have surgery in
Boston and then went to South Dakota to stay with her parents to recover and
get ready for her next round of mesotheliomia
treatment. Lily had already been staying there during Heather’s treatment,
which left me alone at home to focus on working to support my family. Because
of the distance between us, I was only to see my wife and daughter on one
occasion during the whole two-month period.
On a Friday evening, after
getting off from work, I began the 11-hour drive to go see my family. The trip
was long and hard because a snowstorm had blown in. I slept a few hours in the
car, waiting for the plows to come through and clear the roads before I could
continue on my way. I arrived on Saturday morning, exhausted but so excited to
see my wife and daughter. I spent a
handful of precious hours with them on Saturday and Sunday morning, before
packing up and heading back home to be at work on Monday
morning.
It was hard being
separated, but we honestly had no other option. Lily had to be taken care of,
Heather had to have treatment and I had to work. It worked for us and I do not
regret this decision in the least. This is probably the most important lesson
that I have learned as my wife’s caregiver:
we cannot regret any of the tough decisions that cancer forces us to
make. Instead, we need to take comfort
and rejoice in the fact that we retain the ability to make decisions at
all. It gave us a small amount of
control over a situation which, all too often, felt completely out of our
control.
Six years later, my wife
is healthy once again. This was a struggle we would never wish on anyone, but
we did learn from it. We learned to accept help from those who offer it and to
have faith in ourselves and our ability to get through difficult times
together.
Steph Lott with sons Brad, five, Joe, seven and Joshua, two.
Steph Lott a musician whose children lost their dad to cancer has written a moving charity song she hopes will inspire a major performing artist to help make it a fund raising success.
Steph's ex-husband Mick Harris, father of her three oldest sons Joe, Brad and Josh, died in May following a year-long battle with cancer, aged 45.
But Steph, 28, is hoping to take it to the next level and raise thousands for the charity by persuading a household name performer to take her song on to the national stage.
Steph has recorded her own version of the song in a local studio with help from fellow North Devon singer songwriter Chris Millington, who added instrumental accompaniment to her vocals.
“I am a country singer so ‘It Wasn’t Meant to Be’ is a bit of a slow country song,” she said.
“My main quest in all this is to find an established artist to take on the song so we can raise as much money as possible. I think it would suit someone like Leona Lewis and she would do a good job of it.
“I really wanted to do something to help raise money for Cancer Research,” said Steph, who with Rob forms the duo Despite Water
THE mum of a cancer-stricken Birmingham youngster who raised more than £650,000 for charity before his tragic death has penned an emotional book charting his inspirational story.
The Harry Moseley Story – “Making it Happen”, was written by Georgie, of Sheldon, in the hope of raising more awareness of her son’s work.
Eleven-year-old Harry not only made bracelets to raise cash for various charities, he also donated gifts he received to other people and visited schools and businesses to talk about his ideas – all whilst battling a brain tumour.
He lost his fight against the illness in October last year, four years after he was diagnosed.
Georgie admitted that producing the biography has been a tearful journey, but she added it was also one of Harry’s last dreams to have his story told.
“He would have been so proud of the book,” she told the Birmingham Mail. “I only wish that it was an autobiography rather than a biography. I’m just writing it on his behalf.
“It has been a real labour of love to put together. There have been emotional moments and I cry whenever I have to read through it again. But I believe Harry deserved this.”
She added: “The story relieves Harry’s life, but focuses more on when he was diagnosed and how he selflessly helped others. A lot of people know about the bracelets, but they don’t know about the other things he did.
“I wanted to tell people about his work and this was the perfect way to do it.”
She decided to write the biography earlier this year with the help of ghost writer Simon Goodyear. All the money raised from sales will also go to charity.
“It’ll make the perfect Christmas present,” Georgina added. “It’s a true story of an inspiring and special boy.”
Harry gripped the nation by making and selling beaded bracelets all by himself, with all the proceeds he raised going to charity. He also organised and arranged to meet CEO’s of large organisations and did presentations at school assemblies and at large public events talking about his business ideas.
He also befriended many people via the social networking site Twitter including many famous celebrities from all over the world.
PLEASE spread the word about this calendar,over 60 people bared all to make it, every one of them doing so because they have been affected by cancer in some way.It IS more than just a calendar, it represents the want to stand up & fight against cancer. Every two minutes somebody in the UK is diagnosed with Cancer, 100's of people dying every day, the only way we can change this is to raise money. These Cancer charities don't get goverment funding, they rely soley on people like KOFC to raise those funds needed for testing, equipment & drugs. The more money raised & given to them, the more chance of survival rates changing.... the more chance of lives being saved. Thank you, xxx jenny
Greater Manchester Police is mourning the loss of two brave and courageous officers. PC Fiona Bone, aged 32 and PC Nicola Hughes, aged 23, tragically lost their lives whilst responding to an incident in Tameside on Tuesday 18 September.
This is a very sad day in the history of the Force and a truly terrible day for the families of our colleagues. As well as collating condolences on social media, we have set up a book of condolence on our website. This allows you to leave messages of respect for their families, friends and colleagues.